YOUR MARITAL HEALTH/WIVES’ SEXUALITY: MS. MYTH – THE BORED-WOMAN MYTH
Posted on May 18, 2009, under General health.
I never told anyone this, but I always wondered what it would be like with two men. I even wonder what it would be like to do it with the washer repairman. He bent over to fix the thing and I could see his butt. When he stood up, I could see his penis in his pants. I’ve developed what I call PCV, peripheral cock vision. I can look straight ahead but I can still check out the man next to me to see which side of his pants is holding his penis, to see if he is dressed left or right.
WIFE
Myth nine is an extension of myth eight and assumes not only that women are lovers who will trade love for sex but that women are not interested in variety, excitement, different partners, affairs, cheating, newness, and other “male” things. It may be that men find it easier or more acceptable to report their extramarital sex than women do. Our sexist society has allowed the male more freedom and anonymity than the female, in effect more time and opportunity for sex outside of marriage.
“When in the hell do you think I could do it? I don’t travel, my day is under constant child surveillance. I don’t have time. I am never anonymous, as my husband is. How many massage parlors do you think there are for women anyway? Even if I wanted to, and sometimes I think about it, I don’t know if I could or how I could.” This wife’s report is an example of the limits set on women, the assumption that they don’t because they don’t want to instead of that they may not be allowed to, at least overtly.
Data indicate that as women travel more and have more freedom, they, too, may seek out variety. Not all women will do this, for not all men do it. The scarlet letter “A” originally designated a woman, but gender does not predict proclivity for extramarital sex (Type I or II). Again, the love map determines such things, not genital insignia.
*150\97\8*
